1/1/2023 0 Comments Hyper lies 2013 download![]() ![]() This is often the result of either conditional or altogether absent validation from parental figures. Original Survival Function: For the Hyper-Achiever, self-validation, self-acceptance and self-love are all conditional-conditioned on continual performance. ![]() Others might be pulled into the performance vortex of the Hyper-Achiever and become similarly lopsided in their focus on external achievement. Lose touch with deeper feelings, deeper self, and ability to connect deeply with others. Self-acceptance is continuously conditioned on the next success. Impact on Self and Others: Peace and happiness is fleeting and short-lived in brief celebrations of achievement. Feelings are just a distraction and don’t help anything. Portraying a good image helps me achieve results. Justification Lies: Life is about achieving and producing results. Closeness with others would allow them to see that I am not as perfect as the image I portray. Could have fear of intimacy and vulnerability. I feel worthy mostly when I am successful. Sometimes I feel empty and depressed inside, but don’t linger there. You are worthy as long as you are successful and others think well of you.įeelings: I don’t like dwelling in feelings for too long. If I can’t be outstanding, I won’t bother. More into perfecting public image than introspection. Adapt personality to fit what would be most impressive to the other. ![]() Good at covering up insecurities and showing positive image. Highly focused on external success, leading to unsustainable workaholic tendencies and loss of touch with deeper emotional and relationship needs.Ĭharacteristics: Competitive, image and status-conscious. Description: Dependent on constant performance and achievement for self-respect and self-validation. ![]()
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